Chapter Twelve

 

The Years bring Changes

 

In 1933, a quarter section nearer to town became vacant, and Charles decided to buy it as it had good soil and a fine building site, a high knoll surrounded by solid bush to the north and west, good shelter from the wind. We already owned half a section, Charles’ homestead and one that had been settled by a Dr. Zimmerman, a dentist from Toronto. When he left, Charles' sister, Carrie Paterson, had bought it and the two quarters were worked as one. Charles then took it over from Carrie, and we paid her a little at a time whenever we could. Now with all these cattle, we needed more acreage for hay and green feed — four hundred and eighty were none too many.

 

So the big trees were cleared from the knoll, the logs peeled and seasoned, and a man hired to help Charles put up the frame of a good-sized house. The walls were just raised when someone started a fire which ran through our bush and killed all the trees. With the windbreak gone, and coupled with the fact that he could not locate any promising spot for a well on that place, Charles decided to abandon the idea of living there. The walls were dismantled, and the logs brought down to a good building site not far from the present home. Here they were put up again, plastered smoothly inside and out by a Polish husband and wife team, then sided up outside with good fir-siding, and painted white. Nice large windows facing south, [56] and a roomy basement entered by a door and proper stairs, instead of a cellar-flap and rough ladder as formerly. The rooms were all larger too with a fine long addition right across the back which provided a bedroom for the hired man, and plenty of room for the cream separator, washing machine, churn, and a table for storing meat in Winter. This was our home for the second ten years of married life.

 

During this time, one of the young men who had served with my husband all through World War I became our M.P. in the Federal Government, and later served as reeve of R.M. of Invermay. He was the oldest son of some of the early settlers, his name Gladstone Mansfield Ferrie. Through his efforts and influence, the government paid for huge machines to come in and make dugouts for storing the snow water in springtime, which otherwise just ran off and left us without water for livestock. These man-made reservoirs were a great benefit to the district after a11 the trials we had endured. The idea was to dig a well at one corner deep enough for the stored water to seep into, then with a pump in, the work would have been almost nil. However, we did not have the help or the time to do this, so with a trough at one end, the water was carried up in pails to the trough where the cows could come and drink. So it was still hard work, but at least we had water.

 

One day, Charles went up to Margo by train to an auction sale to look for a new horse. The sale was on a farm one mile from the town. He found it was a fine, well-worked farm with rolling land and, best of all, a well which never failed, but gave an ample supply of pure, soft water, right between the barn and the house. The new owner of the farm was an ex-Rama farmer; he had just purchased it, and was about to move in. Charles said to him, “I wish I had known about this place. How I should like to have it.” A year or two later we met this same man, George Auburn, at the Invermay Fair. He said, "Do you still want to buy the place? If so, I will sell it to you." The [57] next day we both went up by train to see it. Margo

was the next town west of Invermay. We came to an agreement, the Auburns drove us down to Invermay, and the deal was closed in front of the Notary Public, the druggist, Dougal MacDonald.

 

We had ten years in our first home at Rama, ten years in the second one, and in October 1944, we loaded up four wagons with our household goods and two collie dogs, and set out for our newest home at Margo. I drove one wagon, Charles another, and two neighbor boys the other two. We sold the half section to a neighbor, Ambrose Kalnicki, who had worked for us for several years. The quarter nearer town was sold to the man across from it, Kop Samchuk; and they are the ones who helped us load up and move. It took us all day to go, with dinner in Invermay Cafe en route, and was dark when we arrived. The Auburns were still there, but it was a big nine-roomed house, plenty of room for us all. They held their auction sale the next day, when the ladies of the Margo United Church came out and served lunch. So I met many who became my good friends, and one I already knew as she had taught south of us in Main Road School, also in Invermay, before being married to Ford Jones of Margo. She is still my friend, now living in Vancouver.

 

Charles’ main reason for moving was, I know, to provide me with a happier life, opportunities for social contacts, and church involvement. We had never had a real church near enough to attend, just little gatherings in schools or homes. Then too when horses had worked hard all the week, it seemed wrong to drive them on Sunday. Here at Margo there was a nice church building, a small congregation, and a resident minister whose wife became a very dear friend. I soon became active in the W.M.S., the Ladies Aid, and the local Red Cross branch. Then the United Church organist left, and, there being no one else available, I had to take her place. Sometimes I was called on to fill in for the Anglican organist, and even played for a funeral at the Lutheran Church. It was a completely different life for me. I was the first woman elected to the School Board of Trustees, and the first woman on the United Church Board of Stewards, being also [58] secretary-treasurer for the church. When the Legion arranged Remembrance Day services in the Community Hall, I was asked to be soloist! It was a great honor for me, leading the inter-denominational choir in the singing. I was also soloist for the Anglican Church special events and the World Day of Prayer - this was because their organist, dear Mrs. Jupe, was a good friend of mine.

 

After two years, we bought a house right in the town, and moved there for the winter months, my husband going to the farm each day to see to the animals, though sometimes we were able to rent the farm-house. We had five and a half very happy years there, and made many good friends. But Charles seemed to feel that this still was not the ultimate place. He dreamed of the Okanagan, and at last set forth to see it, but it did not quite come up to his expectations. He said that the mountains, though more like clay hills, seemed to close in, the valley narrower than he had imagined. So he took the train again, and on to Victoria. He was here for just one night and two days, went to Butchart Gardens, looked over the city, and decided, “This is IT”. We both came out for a month in 1949, went back and sold the town house, rented the farm, and came back to Victoria for good. "Good" is the right word. We have had a wonderfully happy time.

 

We settled on three big lots in the Mount Tolmie area, close to St. Aidan’s Church. I joined the choir, became president of the W.M.S., was appointed to the Presbyterial Board for the City, and many other activities. Also, soon after settling here Charles bought me a typewriter, the first since my little toy one, so I was able to send poems and articles out for publication. I had a store of poems written through the years, and now began writing more, sometimes two in one day. I was very fortunate in finding editors who would accept my work, not only for Canadian publications, but also for magazines in the United States and overseas. I did not refuse to submit to those who were unable to pay, as some writers do, but did get my fair share of remuneration and was richly rewarded [59] in other less tangible ways, having received letters from all over the country, voicing their appreciation of poems or articles. The daily devotional booklet, "The Upper Room", published my submissions over a period of years until I ceased to send them. The Western Producer of Saskatoon was my very best market. I shall always be grateful to the editors, T. Melville-Ness arid Dorothy Hall. I will not try to list the many other periodicals who encouraged me in this writing ministry. I also wrote anthems which have been sung at various churches across Canada. This has really enriched and blessed my life, and I hope and pray has been a witness, and a blessing to others.

 

Charles had more than twenty-three years here before being called to yet another "Home", the final one. It will soon be twenty-nine years since we came. The friends made here have been kindness itself, and I cannot begin to count them all. So many of the neighbors and friends of those first few years on Kisber and Christmas Avenues have gone on to the Better Land. Children who were born after we arrived, are married, and have children of their own.

 

I am glad we came when we did, young enough and healthy enough to get about, and really enjoy life. Charles was only sixty-two when we came. He built a fine house on Christmas Avenue where we planted fruit-trees, and had a huge garden — raspberries, strawberries and masses of flowers. But Charles was always trying to better conditions for me, and decided that Oak Bay was the most desirable part of the city to live so, once again, we moved, and soon made still more friends on Pentland Road. Fifteen happy years

there; but when I lost my husband, it seemed too much bother to try and care for the garden all alone. I was glad to find a nice apartment quite nearby so that I had friends still near me. Each year, more dear ones slip away to the Better Country, but God is good, and sends new people to befriend me, and care for me. My brothers and sister have all departed, but left [60] behind them a host of children and grandchildren – my very dear nieces and nephews — even to a fourth generation.

 

In 1974, and again in 1977, I went to England to see the relatives there, and to meet with my oldest sister for the first time in sixty-one years! And ten days after saying "Good-bye" to her, she passed on to meet her Lord, and be reunited with her parents and all the rest. Since the 1977 trip, four English cousins have also gone to their reward so it is improbable that I shall again go over there.

 

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